Parent's wisdom four: unconditional love, dedicated to my mother

I have always wanted to write something to thank my mother, but I am afraid that my rough writing cannot describe my inner emotions.

Today I contain tears, wrote this article, dedicated to my mother, and also shared with all friends as parents, try to understand What is unconditional love Essence

Mother is a simple rural woman.She has no culture and does not understand any reason.But the kindness of her mother is well-known.In my memory, she has never had any conflict with her neighborhood.People outside the village have a good relationship with their mother.

My mother is also the person who has the deepest influence on me in my life.

I am the first person in our village to be admitted to key universities.The villagers say that our family is a smoke on the ancestral grave.Only a college student came out.But I know that my growth is inseparable from my mother’s company.

But I have never known where my mother affects me at all?I only know that I study hard is to be worthy of my mother’s expectations.

Occasionally, I came into contact with the book “Positive Discipline”, and I realized that this is “Unconditional love” Essence

“Love” is a very magical thing.It is so close to us and so far from us.”Near us” is because as long as it exists, we can easily feel it.”Far away from us” is because it is difficult for us to understand what it is.

I think it is not so accurate to define “love”, and no matter how explain it is, it is unclear.But I know that “love” is a reminiscent thing.It will not disappear in the long river of time and will not be forgotten because of distance.

The fundamental of parents’ wisdom lies in the quality of love EssenceEvery time I mention “love”, I can’t help thinking of my mother.So, today I want to talk about my childhood and understand how my mother expresses “love”.

1.Mother’s love has no conditions

When I was a kid, my family was very poor.My father worked outside the house all year round.My mother needs to look at my brother and me, but also take care of the four acres of eight-point water fields and several acres of mountains.At the same time, my mother also took care of my grandpa.In my memory, Grandpa was lying on the bed most of the time.

There was no shadow of my father in my memory before the age of ten, because he only returned for more than a month if he was busy in the busy season, and then stayed at home for about 20 days during the Spring Festival.

In my memory, my mother always has endless farm work, and she is busy every day.I have been sticking to my mother since I was a child.My mother went down the ground during the day.I will follow her on Tian Yan.At night, my mother bent over and chopped pig grass.I will fan her next to her.

The mother is famous for her diligence and frugality.From self-sensing, I remember that my mother and father had been saving money to build a new house.My mother saves money and is under great pressure, and it is very hard every day, but in my memory, my mother has never yelled at me.

One thing, I am particularly moved now when I think of it now.My mother will insist on making fresh food for me every morning, so that I can eat and go to school.To do such a seemingly simple and common thing, it was not so easy at that time.

When I was a child, I had no quick-frozen food or milk at home.Three meals in our countryside are dinner, and they eat rice and dishes.The mother usually gets up at about five o’clock, first do about one hour of farm work, and then cut firewood, fire, and cook.It is a troublesome thing to cook with firewood, basically a meal will toss for an hour.So the children in the neighborhood nodded the leftovers in the morning.

But my mother felt that she was not nutritious, so even if she worked hard, she had to insist on letting me eat and eat well to go to school.Although it was poor at that time, there was no mountain and sea flavor, it was not easy to eat a meal, but I was very nutritious.

When I was a kid, I was not a person who followed the rules.I am lively and loves to make friends.Since I went to school, I have often brought friends to my home to play, and I lived in my house that night.My mother always tries everything to treat my friends and make me face.

In retrospect, the rural areas in the 1980s should only be barely resolved.At that time, it was not easy to make a decent dish.Only on the New Year, birthday, and several major festivals can we have meat.The usually best dish is fried eggs or stir-fry a plate of tofu made by home.Every time my friend comes over, my mother will make several different dishes.

My mother had all the reasons to reprimand me at all, so that I would not bother her, but she never complained.She always said that as long as I am happy, she will do my best to satisfy.

I remember that on my fourteen birthday, I brought a lot of friends to the house as a guest at home.My birthday is February, the season when it is upright and yellow.My mother tried everything to prepare a rich dinner.After the classmates were sleeping, she quietly pulled me to the kitchen and secretly stuffed me two eggs, saying that she had to eat eggs for birthday.

At the beginning, I also blame my mother why she did not give the eggs to the classmates to eat together.Later, through the auntie of the neighbor, I knew that the old hens in our family have not been eggs recently.These two eggs are still borrowed by my mother and auntie.Essence

That was the first time I felt guilty to my mother.My mother’s love deeply touched my soul.This was an unclear feeling.

From elementary school to middle school, I am very naughty, fighting for strong, and love to make the limelight.I often cause trouble outside.My Chinese teacher didn’t like me particularly.Every time he saw my mother, he had to say a few gossip.I also like to bully female classmates, and the female classmates kept suing my mother.Primary school principals often call my mother to talk in the past, fearing that I will become a person who endangers society.

But my mother never taught me because of these deliberate reprimand and blame me.Outsiders will feel that my mother loves me, but I know that this is my mother’s trust in me.

The mother’s love for me has no conditions, and she is willing to accept the true self. My mother had to pay for me and never asked for returns.At that time, parents liked to tell their children that now parents and moms are good to you.You must not have a daughter-in -law forgotten in the future.In my memory, my mother never asked me to make any promises to her dedication.

Although my childhood was very skinny and no conventional, I heard my mother very much.My mother taught me what, and I would remember it in my heart.I think this should be the power of mother’s love.It has the quality and makes people feel deep.

2.Mother’s love has no conditions, but there is a boundary

Mother’s love has no conditions, but there is a border EssenceHer mother has not read too many books, and she does not understand the principle of the rules.But my mother taught me physical to be a filial person, a kind person, a responsible person, and a useful person to society.

After I studied some philosophical and psychological books, and I started writing the “Parent’s Wisdom” series of articles, I gradually understood it.Mother’s love is full of wisdom Essence

Mother’s love contains tolerance,, Tolerance is to accept the true and kind me who unconditionally, instead of indulging me to make mistakes.

The most emphasized that the mother emphasized the filial piety, and she was also doing it.His mother served three elderly people all his life.The first old man was my second grandfather.My grandfather died when his father was very young, and then his father went to my second grandfather as a son.When my mother gave birth to me, the second grandfather was seventy-eight.At that time, Er Ye was not very good.Most of the time he was lying on the bed, and his mother was serving behind the bed in front of the bed.

The second old man is my grandma.My grandma does not live with us, but lives with my uncle about two or three miles away from my house.They belong to another production team.My grandma had a very hard life.At that time, we were very particular about the surname of Zong, and people with surnames were easily bullied.The production team of our surname is the small number.

Listening to my mother said that her grandmother was cautious in her life, but she also had to be angry and looked at the eyes of others everywhere.Her old man kept a widow at a young age, and his own son could not support it, and he had to go to others.I originally had a aunt.Later, I was coaxed to marry others to be a second-bedroom.Finally, I couldn’t stand the bullying.

It may be because my life was too bumpy, my grandma got Alzheimer’s disease in his later years, and sometimes I didn’t even know it.The mother is very heartbroken grandma, and she will visit my grandmother every three, and I will ask my grandmother to come to my house for a while.

I remember that one year was particularly suffering, as if my father had an accident in the factory, cut off two fingers, and spent a lot of money to treat the disease.In the Dragon Boat Festival that year, my mother bought a piece of particularly small meat, and there was only a small bowl of stewed.I went home from school and saw this cup of meat water, because I really haven’t eaten meat for a long time.But my mother did not let me eat, and said it was prepared for grandma alone.

At that time, I didn’t cry or make trouble.I don’t know why.I can understand this filial piety of my mother.I sent the meat to my grandma’s house with my mother, and I left after watching my grandma after eating.Looking at her old man’s cheerful smile, I also felt very warm.

The third old man is my third grandma.The third grandma is also a bitter fate.At the age of nine, she became Tong Yang’s daughter-in -law, and then married my third grandfather.It is said that my third grandfather has a good look and romantic, and has always disliked my third grandma.During the war of liberation, the third Grandpa was arrested, became Zhuang Ding, left his wife and children, and went back.

My third grandma has two daughters and one son.Both daughters were married to the country, and they couldn’t return a few times a year.Her son has a little problem, and died earlier.The third grandma lived next to my house.Her old life was mainly taken care of by her mother.

The three grandmother’s body was healthy in his later years.It was no problem to wash and cook by himself, but all physical work could not be done.Mother needs to prepare firewood, food, and vegetables.My mother often warns me and my brother, if the third grandma has any places to help, we must take the initiative to help.Our hometown has no tap water and needs to drink well water.My mother will ask me and my brother to help the third grandma fill the water tank every day.

Her mother is very kind.She uses her limited power to teach me how to be a filial person and how to help those who need help.

What mother can’t bear is theft.I remember when I put the cattle, I was greedy for a while, and stole the vegetables in the village vegetable fields next door.When my mother knew, she just pulled me to others to apologize and lost money.She told me that no matter how difficult it was, she couldn’t get other people’s things.

My mother hopes that I will be a man with a stand-alone earth and bear the responsibility of a man.Of course, my mother did not tell me any responsibility, but she would ask me not to lie and dare to do it.I bullied the female classmate.She did not scold me, because she believed that I was kind in nature, but every time such a thing happened, my mother would pull me to apologize to my parents’ parents.From small to large, I have basically not lied to my mother.

Therefore, the mother’s love has no conditions, but there is a boundary.These borders are the standards of my behavior, and slowly integrate into my bones, which has become the criterion for my life.

3.Mother’s love is full of infectious power

The love of my mother was full of infectious power.At that time, there would be many contradictions between the children in the neighborhood and the parents, but I listened to my mother very much.

When I was a kid, I had no ideal ambitions, and I didn’t even know what was going on in the university, because there were no college students in my village.The goal of studying hard is to not violate my mother’s expectations, and at the same time, my mother can be proud of me.I was naughty and naughty as always, but I made up my mind from my heart to be a person who is worthy of my mother.

My mother is particularly afraid that I am with the people who are not three or four, and my friends have never had a small bastard that is unreasonable;
My mother doesn’t like me to be indulging in martial arts novels, and I never read any extra-curricular readings;
My mother hopes that I have a good academic performance, and I will always keep my grades a good grade;
My mother was afraid that I would gamble to smoke, and I would not touch these things at all.

I have been distressed by my mother since I was a child.The mother’s body has not been particularly good.When she heard that she was born, she did not sit down.When my mother gave birth to me, she was broadcasting the seedling season.Without waiting for my full moon, she was going to cultivate the seedlings to cultivate seedlings, leaving the root of the disease.So I have always been guilty about my mother.

I like to work with my mother to work.Every time my mother goes off the farmland, she will pant and sweat, and I will help send tea to send tea.I will never forget my mother’s long hair in front of her forehead, wipe the sweat on my face with a towel, and smile when I pick up the water cup in my small hand.At that time, I always wanted to tease my mother through my meager power.

I remember when I got the three good students in the first grade of elementary school, I couldn’t wait to show it to my mother with the award.On that day, my mother went to the nearby market.I rolled a few mountains with a prize and transcript and found my mother from the downtown market.When I put the transcript in front of my mother, my mother was very happy to give it to the neighbors who met in the market.It was the first time I saw my mother’s joy from the heart, and now I have a deep memory.

Since then, I suddenly found the secret to bringing happiness to my mother.Later, I kept studying hard, I wanted to get a prize at the end of each semester to make my mother happy.

I remember that I took the thirteenth place in the school in the first middle school exam in junior high school.After the mother glanced at it, her face was overcast, saying that I could ranks among the top ten in the township examinations.Why did I only get the thirteenth place this time?

At that time, I was almost fourteen years old and should be in the age of rebellion, but I did not have any rebellion for my mother’s blame.I never know why I can always obey my mother’s criticism and education.In memory, I have not had any direct conflict with my mother.

It wasn’t until I was my parents that I wanted to understand that it was because the love of my mother was full of wisdom and infectious power, and we trusted each other.Her love for me is unconditional, and any of her starting points are for me.She blame me for only the thirteenth place, because she noticed that I had stepped back, and I did not complete her transcendence.She never compares me with others, and does not force me to Yingzong Yaozu.

My mother just asked, today I can’t be worse than yesterday.I studied more hard in the first half of my semester and caught up my academic performance step by step.I took the second place in the first semester test in the first semester.

One of the most common words in our countryside is that raising children to prevent the elderly.But I have never heard the meaning of her love from my mother’s mouth.One of the most often words she said is: “As long as you are good, my body is okay.” Every time I listen to this sentence, I feel uncomfortable.

Probably from my third grade in junior high school, my mother began to have headaches, and the short-term memory suddenly decreased.From the third day of the third day, I lived in school on Monday to Friday, and I could only go home on weekends.Once I went home for dinner and found that my mother’s dishes were not salt.The mother said, “Recently, the memory is not good, and I always lose three or four.”Watching my mother’s hobbing back, I burst into tears.

That was the first time I felt that my mother’s body had begun to weaken.Although she was not particularly good before, in my eyes, she has always been a steel and iron bone, which helps me support the pillar of the sky.At this moment, I suddenly felt that this pillar began to have cracks.At that time, I was particularly afraid that my mother would leave.For the first time, I especially wanted to grow up quickly.

When my mother saw me crying, came back to comfort me, or then, “As long as you are good, my body is okay.” The simple words of my mother were full of strength, and my heart was deeply touched.Until now, every time I call or video with my mother, when I greet each other, my mother still likes to say this.

Mother, do you know?This sentence can touch my heart every time, it makes me feel love.

When I wrote here, my tears couldn’t help flowing, This is unconditional love, without any demand, simple but full of infectious power.

4.My mother’s love is my belonging

Due to some special reasons, I have not been able to admit to key middle schools when I graduated from junior high school.But I am not so sad or frustrated.The reason is that my mother’s love makes me feel that I am the best in her mind.Even if I am bruised outside, there is always a warm harbor waiting for me to return.This may be Sense of belonging Essence

My mother supported my relationship everywhere for my key middle schools and looked for someone to help.Mother never walked out of our town before, because of this incident, she ran several times.

I remember my mother went to the county seat for the last time, and I hadn’t returned late.I went to find my mother along the mountain and found that my mother was crying alone under a hillside.She told me with tears that I went to the key middle school completely without hope, only to go to ordinary middle school.At that time, I couldn’t help crying, not because of this unsatisfactory result, but because I knew that this result was not my mother’s expectations for me.

I know that my mother shed tears because she blamed that she could not give me the best things, but what made me sad is that at this moment I can’t let my mother proud of me.

From then on, I vowed to study harder, even in ordinary middle schools, it was not worse than the key middle schools.In high school, I am famous for my desperate Saburo.I am studying at all times, and I have never relaxed even on weekends.I remember there is a Jinhua Mountain near high school.It is said that the scenery is very good.It is a place for men and women to take a walk together.My friends have basically climbed several times, but I have never been to this day.At that time, I was wasting even one minute to study time.

My previous test results in high school were not outstanding, and my grades were only about ten in the class.I know that the pressure of high school will be particularly high.I also deliberately memorized the idiom dictionary before the summer vacation in high school.Unfortunately, I have a flat talent, and I have a rare idiom competition in the class, and I fail to stand out.

At the beginning, I was a little discouraged.When I got home, I told my mother.My mother comforted me and said that this was a school in the county.There were many good students.My mother still trusts me and encourage me.Her words were full of strength, which made me not be defeated by difficulties, but became more frustrated and brave.

This is the sense of belonging.No matter how difficult I encounter, I will not completely deny myself, because I know that there is such a person, I am the best in her mind;People, I need to use more efforts to return her trust in me.

5.My mother’s love makes me perseverance

The most influential point of my mother on me is that she educates me to be a filial person, and I will have filial piety for me.Every time I make a decision, I ask myself to be worthy of my mother.Just as Akiyama Lihui said in the book “The Spirit of the Craftsman”,

Temk with your mind and educate people with filial piety.
“Craftsman’s Spirit”

As long as we have filial piety, we will restrict ourselves strictly in accordance with the requirements of our parents.Then we will not do something sorry for our parents, and slowly we will become what parents expect us to become.

My mother asked me to continue to challenge myself.Today, I was stronger than yesterday, and slowly achieved the perseverance in my character.My talent is not outstanding, but my personality will make me strong and strong, and I am not afraid of failure.

In the early days of high school, my academic performance was not ideal.After unremitting efforts, I pursued it, and I was not complacent.At that time, I particularly liked to communicate with my senior classmates.Among them, Brother Wan, who had the biggest impact on me, was two taller than me.I slowly started to have my own ideals, and I wanted to be admitted to key universities.Since then, I have a lofty goal, and the motivation to learn no longer stays with the classmates around me.

The power brought by perseverance is to take the initiative to get close to difficulties and not make excuses for your failure.

Before I went to high school, my mother’s trustees inquired that high school physics was the most difficult, and many people could not learn well.Then my mother encouraged me to learn physics well, so I had a very strong interest in physical output.It is with the encouragement of my mother that I was not scared by difficulties, because I know that only by facing difficulties can we surpass myself.I was very serious in physics class, so my physical results have always been very good.The five subjects in the county, and I also got the first place in the county.I and a physics teacher, also the later class teacher, also became the friendship of forgetfulness.

I have serious partial subjects.Chinese and English are my shortcomings.My grades have basically stabilized in the second place from the end of the first semester.I have always worshiped Xiao Xiao who ranked first in the first place.He was very talented.His grades in various subjects were very balanced.I was not jealous of him.I chose to learn from him and actively be friends with him.

Today, after reading the book “Lifetime Growth”, I understand the importance of growth thinking.I will consciously regard the success of others as a motivation rather than a pressure, which may also be the power of perseverance.

In the late high school, after a long “follow”, I finally surpassed Xiao Xiao and got the first place.Until the three rectus students Wu came to our class, I was squeezed to the second place.My classmate and I have also become a good friend.I have always been very grateful to classmate Wu, and his arrival has also inspired me to make greater progress.My first simulation test score of my senior high school was very poor, and the classmate Wu was a lot behind, but in the last three simulation tests, my scores were better than once, so that my college entrance examination scores were the best in all four simulation test results.OK

This is my real experience.My life has not been opened, but I do step by step, and I have to make progress every day.This is also my mother’s request for me.She always asked me to compare with her past to achieve surpassing herself step by step.This is the perseverance that my mother’s love brings me.At the critical moment in my life, I can always help me pass the difficulties.

6.Mother’s love has made my independent self-esteem

After unremitting efforts, I finally admitted to Tianjin University as expected, and finally fulfilled my promise to my mother at the beginning.I was pregnant with 7,000 yuan I made for me to come to the well-known universities in my mind, but after arriving at the university, it was another scene.

Six classmates in my dormitory, two Tianjin City, a Shenyang City, a Nanchang City, and a Xinjiang Aksu City.I am the only one from the countryside.I came to school in the north.I was not prominent, wearing soil, and there was no money in the bag.At first I couldn’t even say that I didn’t even know the call.I really had a sense of inferiority from the heart.

When I went to school for the first time, my brother sent me to the past.After my brother stayed two days after leaving, I especially missed my mother and my family.I have no friends in Tianjin, no relatives.When I think my mother, I sneak in tears by the Lake of Youth alone.Fortunately, I met a few fellows later, such as Du Luluo and my wife.Occasionally, I can talk about my hometown with them, alleviating many of my sorrows.

In the later learning process, I found that my knowledge and knowledge were not prominent in the department and even in the class.I also really felt what “there are mountains outside the mountains, there are people outside the mountain, and there are people outside.”I have insomnia a few times and feel the emptiness and confusion that I have never had before.

At that time, I would call my mother every three differences, but they were not worried.I don’t want my mother to worry about me.My mother has given me everything she can give, and I need to rely on myself.

At that time, I had 10 million reasons to make myself fall and make myself mediocre.It is not easy for me to be admitted to Tianjin University from Dashan.It is not easy for Tianjin University to find reasons that I can’t better than others.But I don’t want to do this, I want to be a child who makes my mother proud.I studied very hard at college for four years.It was not to prove myself, but to be worthy of my mother everywhere.

Four years of college brought me unprecedented pressure.I can spend these four years.First of all, I would like to thank my current wife for their companionship, and at the same time, I would like to thank my mother’s love.It made me Independent self-esteem Essence

My mother asked me to be filial, I learned to be grateful, and I am grateful for the affairs around me;
My mother asked me to be kind, I learned to treat others well, and slowly made a lot of friends;
My mother asked me to have a sense of responsibility.When I learned to face setbacks, I would benefit in difficulties;
My mother asked me not to steal or grab.I learned to be down-to -earth and improve myself step by step.

These points have also achieved the criteria for judging things.This is Sense of value Essence

I ask my mother to do anything.First of all, be a person you like.This is Self-love Essence

My mother let me know that I am my greatest enemy.I know my strengths and my weaknesses.For the strengths, I will quit arrogance and keep it.For the shortcomings, I will learn more and be brave, and catch up.This is confidence Essence

The combination of self-worth, self-love, and self-confidence forms independent self-esteem.

Self-esteem will keep me rational when facing the emotions of tragedy; when facing difficulties and dangers, it maintains fighting spirit; in the face of external temptations, it is restrained.Independent self-esteem allowed me to not lower my requirements for myself for four years.As always, I study hard, constantly explore unknown self, and pursue the maturity of my mind.

In the fourth grade of university, I gave up the opportunity to give away from Tianjin University, admitted to graduate students at Tsinghua University, and then went abroad to study abroad.Now I have become the father of two children, and I can feel the impact of my mother’s love on my life.

Whenever I find the gap in my knowledge, it is not enough to help my children, I will use my mother as an example to continue to explore, learn, break through, and learn to be a good father.It is with this independent self-esteem that I will never give up my pursuit of higher self-self.

7.What is unconditional love?

Scott Parker will define the love in the book “The Road to Less”:

Love is a consciousness of continuously expanding the self-boundaries and realizing self-improvement in order to promote the maturity of yourself and others.
“There are few people walking”

Explain in a popular sentence: To truly love someone, you will continue to change yourself, break through yourself, and improve yourself for him, so as to better help him grow.

Doty is not love EssenceDotyle is the needs of one party to meet the other.Doting can also have no conditions, but there is no boundary.The parties paid did not broaden their boundaries and did not improve themselves, and neither parties had not reached their mental maturity.

Mother’s love has no conditions, full of tolerance, but there is a boundary EssenceThe mother has always used these borders to ask herself to restrict herself, so as to continuously promote her mental maturity and self-improvement.

Mother kept expanding her boundaries and comfort circles EssenceI am naughty, she taught me; I did not admit to key middle schools, she broke through herself and went to the county alone; my mother loved face, but she would ask for people for me to go to school; my mother could live a better life for me, sheWill work desperately.

Mother has amazing restraint EssenceMy mother is exhausted every day, but she always smiles at me and resents.My father was not at home all the year round, and the mother would inevitably be bullied outside, but the mother had never been angry with me and never yelled at me.Even if I made a mistake, my mother would not scold me arbitrarily, but taught it.

My mother is always the role model I learn EssenceWhen I do n’t know how to love my child, I will remember how my mother loves me; when I am impatient and prepare to get angry because of anxiety, I will tell myself; When I find the gap in my knowledge, when I do n’t know how to help my child, I will learn to expand my self-boundaries like my mother and continue to explore.

8.End language

Psychologist Adler said in the book “Children’s Personality Education”, saying that

Fortunately, people are healed by childhood, and unfortunate people use their lives to heal their childhood.
“Children’s Personality Education”

I am a lucky person, because my mother gave me unconditional love.

Unconditional love is to accept the true me EssenceUnconditional love has given me a sense of belonging enough.Even if I encounter big difficulties outside, I will feel that the sky cannot be collapsed, because I know that my mother’s unconditional love for me has always been there.

Love has no conditions but has boundaries EssenceThis boundary is the rule that we cannot pass, and it is the standard of our values.Once we have the right values, we also clearly know our advantages and disadvantages, so that we will not be aware of ourselves because of external influence.

This is my mother, this is the “unconditional love” I understand.I grow up healthy in this unconditional love, and at the same time I will pass this unconditional love to my children.No matter how big I grow, the unconditional love given by my mother is the motivation to push me constantly doing myself and explore myself.

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9.Editor’s words

After reading Dr.Nie’s article, I am touched and the corners of my eyes are humid.Because this reminds me of my mother, she also never gives up or scold, but she just gave silent love, silent teaching, and silent support.

my childhood: Kindergarten began to escape school, parents often came to the house, the scores of elementary school have been under medium, and the final class of the first exam was the third, and multiple courses were failed.

my mother: In elementary school, my mother wrote the test paper over and over, so that I could make the test paper several times.Many parents will let their children stay away from me, and the mother knows that they will be silent; the parent meeting, the mother will sit silently in the final position of the class.But in the face of me, my mother always taught her hard-hearted teachings, inform me of her true feelings, and asked me to think about the method of solving the problem.At the same time, I gave me expectations and support.My mother can be said to my life for me.I look in my eyes and hurt my heart.

One day, my prodigal son finally turned back.All this stems from the mother’s tolerance, the trust of the mother, and the unconditional love of the mother.

Now as a father and mother, what kind of love can we give us the next generation?After adults, can we still reflect on those little love we give them in those childhood?

The following is your sharing time! What kind of love stories do you and your mother have?We sincerely invite you to share your story with your mother.Please share with you at the end of the article.

Parent’s wisdom four: unconditional love, dedicated to my mother